John and Ashley reveal the hidden psychological power plays that make navigating the dating landscape much more tricky. In this episode, we look at the dark psychology behind dating mind games while exploring the motivations in seemingly innocent interactions and investigating techniques to recognize and counteract this manipulative behavior. They reference the Hulu documentary mini-series[...]

John and Ashley continue discussing their own views on dating and their dating lives.https://iknowcupid.com Title song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams

John and Ashley discuss a TicTok trend of women looking for single guys at Home Depot. Then start to discuss their own dating lives and the challenges they face.

John and Ashley explain what they have been up to over the past year. They give away some details that have never been revealed on the show. Then they go into detail about their own dating life, what has changed, and some interesting challenges they have faced. https://iknowcupid.comOpening Song: Kiss Chase by Chloe Adams

John and Ashley answer the question of where you start when searching for your soul mate. This answer comes from the first lesson of their soon-to-be-released course. They go into why this is the most important step in finding true love. This is the step most often missed by so many people.https://iknowcupid.com Opening Song: Kiss[...]

Choosing a partner or deciding on a partner?

John and Ashley discuss upcoming show with Anwar White.

Some of the things that dating companies and apps do to keep you hooked.

We have a couple of online dating stories that will make you cringe.

Looking at how two different men think about women.

This isn't the love language you may be thinking of.

In this episode, John and Ashley give you one of the four most common things they see that signals when a relationship is not going to work. Indifference is a warning sign that a breakup or divorce is about to happen.

A highly requested episode on how we are able to build deeply intimate relationships so quickly. In this episode, John and Ashley give you all the information you need. Step-by-step and in-depth from beginning to end. Whether you are married and looking to add the spark back in, or you are dating this episode has[...]

A lot of questions are being asked about our new website and course. John and Ashley answer these questions while giving an overview of what their new course covers. They explain some details of what makes their course so different and effective from some of the other dating and relationship experts or gurus out there.What[...]

You are asking us "What makes you so different?" In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, we start to reveal to you what sets us apart. In Thursday's show, we will take reveal the core of what makes us so different from every other dating, relationship, and love coach out there. If you[...]

We were asked how to take a conversation from "average" to a more flirtatious and sexual one. In this episode, John and Ashley give the details and steps to just that. Each step is explained along with a few additions to be aware of. Such as the five key signals to watch for to see[...]

How do you turn any conversation into a more flirtatious or sexual conversation? John and Ashley give a preview of what is coming up this Thursday. They will be covering how to flirt with any topic and then take that topic and increase the sexual tension.

In this episode, John and Ashley explain in detail pick-up does not work. They explain why using the teachings of pick-up artists, and most dating gurus and dating experts is bad and the common results. Then you get to hear about a test that John conducted between a dating gurus advice and what is taught[...]

The response rate from our two-part episode of Dating Gurus blew us away. In this episode, John and Ashley answer a few questions and let you know what you can expect in the future with dating, relationships, and love in the Girls Ask Guys Show.

John and Ashley continue with their deep dive into looking at Dating and Relationship gurus and what they say they offer. Do they actually teach you what you need to know to improve your dating and relationship love life? Or is it just a bunch of very expensive feel-good theory? Find out in part 2[...]

In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley take a deep look into some relationship and dating gurus. They look at what they claim to teach and prices the prices they charge. Is your love life worth the cost of a house?

There are multiple ways to deal with approach anxiety. In this episode, John and Ashley give two ways that most people find effective in changing their views on approaching and talking with a person they find attractive. You will have two effective tools you can use in ten minutes. On Thursday, you will know exactly[...]

In this episode, John and Ashley explain how you can create desirability by changing how you think about your interactions. Takeaways and actionable tips are given along with examples of how you should be thinking when talking to someone. If you want to be seen as desirable by another person, this is your first step[...]

How would you feel if you found out the person you were dating had been coached by a dating coach? John and Ashley talk about some of the responses and feelings people had to this question.

We hear that you need to have confidence to attract someone all the time. But, when you ask what that looks like, no one can tell you exactly. They just say "well, it's confidence."John and Ashley go through and explain what this looks like and how to do it. This is not a one size[...]

Dating or trying to get to know someone better during quarantine can be a challenge to a lot of people. John and Ashley have some ideas that can help you get the ball rolling. Don't let the quarantine get in the way of you finding and developing a great loving relationship.

Settling in a relationship is something a lot of people do. The problem comes later when the relationship breaks up and people get hurt because they don't understand why. In this episode, John and Ashley share the core two parts of why people settle in a relationship.

John and Ashley discuss a topic sent in by a listener who asks about a relationship that has confusing signals and a fear of rejection. 

Why don't girls ask guys out? This is a question from Girls Ask Guys Show listener Anthony.In this ten-minute Tuesday episode, John and Ashley go through the question and give some insight as to several reasons girls may not ask a guy out on a date or even express interest in dating a particular guy.To[...]

John and Ashley talk about a question that came in about a guy who really wants a relationship really bad. The problem is wanting something but not really knowing what that something is.Want to date without all the pressure try out Fourplay. Available in the Apple App Store and Google Play Store. https://www.fourplaysocial.com Or check[...]

Over 30 or getting close to turning 30 and wondering about your love life? We have some tips for dating after 30 that make things a lot easier. Most of these tips come straight from our course that change your mindset and set you up for success to meet the person of your dreams.Get a[...]

The Girls Ask Guys Show received a message from a woman who is about to turn 30. She wants to know if she should give up on looking for marriage after 30.For an easier way to date check out https://www.fourplaysocial.com on Apple App Store and Google Play.You can also check https://www.girlsaskguysshow.com or try our instant[...]

What is it about becoming 30 and having problems dating? In this episode of Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley begin exploring what it's like for women trying to date after 30. They lay the groundwork for an in-depth series while answering a few questions as well.Get ahead of the curve with Fourplay -[...]

Some people find the dating world to be very difficult when they cross over from the 20s and into the 30s crowd. Dating after 30 doesn't have to be difficult. John and Ashley introduce a new series to explore the problems and offer solutions to dating for those who getting close or are dating over[...]

Why do we need boundaries in our lives and relationships? In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show John and Ashley give a detailed explanation. They pull directly from their "Authentic Datable You" course lesson to give you an insight into what relationships look like without boundaries.Take a seat and strap in as this[...]

This question came to the Girls Ask Guys Show and its one that has John and Ashley scratching their heads. The situation is one that rom-com movies are made after, not real-life relationships or dating.They take the situation apart, look at each person, and then work to give a direction for the asker.Visit our website[...]

How do I get out of the friendzone? It's one of the more popular asked questions around social media and to us. So, today we give you a chronological system on how to get out of the friendzone. This friendzone exit strategy is one that John has used for years, and it has rarely failed.[...]

When it comes to love and relationships people look for answers in all sorts of places. Today we explore different types of astrology to see if there are any merits to it. Visit our site for more information like this.https://www.girlsaskguysshow.com

What is a good kiss? How can I kiss better? These are questions the Girls Ask Guys Show gets every now and then. John and Ashley answer this in detail with a step by step guide to show you how you elevate your kissing game to new heights. These simple steps can take you from[...]

How you can be remembered by the people you meet? Do you want to be unforgettable in your relationships? John and Ashley go through the exact steps to make that happen in this episode. They break it down and explain each part in detail with examples from their own lives.If you want to be unforgettable,[...]

Text and messaging are almost as popular as using the phone. Many people have problems with messages. They wonder when and how many messages they should send. How to handle when they don't get a reply.In this episode, John and Ashley give practical and easy to use advice for some of the most common problems[...]

A listener wrote in with a question that asks about confronting his friend about the person they are dating. Apparently, the asker has problems with what is being posted on twitter about is taking place in the relationship. John and Ashley take on this question and look at it from all angles with some pointed[...]

What do guys find attractive in girls that are non-physical? Is there something that a woman can do to attract a guy? In this episode, we answer that question and back it up with the latest evidence. We found specific actions women can take to catch the attention of a guy she finds attractive.  To[...]

What do guys find attractive in girls? Are there qualities guys see as attractive? Is there a physical trait or body type the best indicator of a guy's genuine attraction? It's a question that a lot of women have all across the internet. The Girls Ask Guys Show goes on a quest to answer this[...]

In this episode of Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley found that there is a book for women filled with rules that women should follow while dating. Both John and Ashley go through each of these rules and give you their opinion on following these rules might possibly affect a woman's dating life. According[...]

This episode comes from an active conversation taking place on Instagram. A guy asks "How do you get an attractive person to like you?" and the conversation goes from there. As it develops he asks even deeper questions for guidance. John and Ashley go through question by question to answer each in a more in-depth[...]

John and Ashley get two questions regarding marriage and why people seem to want to get married so badly. They go into the questions in-depth to get to the real reason as to why this is. The answer may be shocking to some until you ponder on it for a while. Be sure to check[...]

John and Ashley get a question about online dating. "Why are tinder girls so ridiculous?" John and Ashley go through the question and the included statement line by line. As they go through the question, John and Ashley point out what you can do to increase your chances of meeting someone online. For more episodes[...]

John and Ashley answer two questions that deal with characteristics. The first is about personal character and the second is about how a person looks. Both of these questions are relevant to what is happening behind the scenes at the Girls Ask Guys Show and what listeners are asking for. John and Ashley take these[...]

John and Ashley take on what can only be called an organized incel community. They dive into a community of men who call themselves a movement known as MGTOW. This stands for Men Going Their Own Way. It's something of a phenomenon that we explore to try and find out what their deal is and[...]

We got a load of listener questions to go through. In this episode, John and Ashley take two questions about relationships. The first is one submitted by a guy who asks why his girlfriend says he is everything she wants but doesn't know if she has feelings for him. The second question is from a[...]

The Coronavirus (or Corona Virus) is out there and people are freaking out about it. John and Ashley do a bit of investigating and share what they have found to deal with it in your relationships or dating life.With different areas coming under quarantine they give some suggestions on how to take the time and[...]

We got an email from a lady who is confused as to whether a guy is interested in her or not.Once we got the message decoded, we went through it piece by piece to figure out what could have happened and where things possibly went wrong. We do our best at explaining how to decipher[...]

We got a DM on Instagram from a person who requested our assistance on a situation. John and Ashley went to work on helping this person with their situation with the information sent to them. Looking at the situation from every angle possible John and Ashley give their opinion on the next step this person[...]

The Netflix Love Is Blind finale happened with the weddings taking place. Based on all the research and what was in the episodes John and Ashley made some predictions in the last Love Is Blind episode. In this episode, John and Ashley go over each of the predictions between the couples and their relationships then[...]

Picking a style comes from knowing who you are and what you want to show the world.People make a general assumption of who you are based off what they initially see. They assume who you are based off what they see before they get to know who you are. In this episode, we give you[...]

In this episode, John and Ashley go deep into the four Love Is Blind episodes that have been released by Netflix. John and Ashley go into each episode and detail the cast and compare what they are going through with the research that has already been discovered. The research is given so that you can[...]

Netflix came out with a show based on some psychological studies that people don't have to see each other to fall in love. Unfortunately, John is all too familiar with those studies and both John and Ashley have a problem with the Netflix show 'Love Is Blind'.John and Ashley pull about 37 studies from their[...]

This episode builds on the previous four episodes. To effectively use the information covered you will need to have listened to at least the previous one. John and Ashley go deep into how to effectively master flirting. They not only cover the science, the cover the steps involved so that even the newest person can[...]

The last three episodes were how to get ready for dating, getting the date, and going on the date. One thing was missing from that micro-course. That was how to flirt. But, only because flirting is such a large topic. In this episode, John and Ashley cover the five types of flirting, how they work,[...]

In the past two episodes, we showed you how you can become a more dateable person. In this episode, John and Ashley walk you through final preps and going on the date and showcasing your authentic self. Each part of the dating prep is covered so you have the best chance of success. Then we[...]

Talking to a person you have never met can be a nerve-wracking experience for some people. Especially if you find them attractive. Having some kind of strategy can help lessen those nerves.In this second part of a three-part micro-course series John and Ashley break things down into easy to understand parts so nearly anyone can[...]

In this episode, John and Ashley finally give all you listeners who asked what you want. A micro-course that walks you through how to meet someone and how to get a date.Included with this episode is a PDF that is downloadable, depending on the platform in which you are listening. If you cannot download the[...]

Ever wonder how you can get someone to consistently think about you? John and Ashley walk you through each of the steps to make this possible.There are lots of ways people say you can do this. But, they tend to one or two "tips" without explaining the strategy or science behind it. When you know[...]

We have all been there, the bad relationship breakup. The questions, anger, and depression that comes with it. In this episode, John and Ashley talk with Sharla Mandere who helps people with depression, anxiety, and that sense of being overwhelmed. Sharla helps people become their authentic selves. She gives some tips and examples of what[...]

In this episode, John and Ashley talk with Greg Roedersheimer from Suburban Folk podcast. Greg had successfully used online dating to meet his wife to whom he now happily married.Online dating is not simple or easy. Greg gives several tips on what he learned in the online dating world along with the sites he had[...]

In this episode, Ashley gets a question from a guy who wants a girl's opinion on which superpower girls want most. He obviously doesn't know Ashley because she didn't find the question all that funny.But, John and Ashley continued by giving what superpower they would like to have and the reasons behind those choices. Ashley[...]

Ashley and John take questions from those who have crushes on someone. Both John and Ashley show the difference between a proper crush mentality and a bad crush mentality. To submit a question or to be a guest on the show go to the Girls Ask Guys Show website at http://www.girlsaskguysshow.com/contact Please leave an honest[...]

John and Ashley tackle the online dating world of Tinder with a question from a guy. Is tinder proof of how shallow girls are? Ashley and John go at this question from all different angles including how Tinder established itself. Our two hosts then answer possibly the hardest question anyone can ask. Does being yourself[...]

This episode is so appropriately titled as a new voice is added to the show. Ashely joins the show to host along with John.Ashley catches John and asks him what his number one tip is for meeting women. We give tips on how to approach a stranger and possibly get a date.In addition John and[...]

This is a solo show with John behind the mic. In this episode, John takes on four questions: Guys would you bring a girl to a fast food place, like McDonalds, on a first date? How do I deal with a woman who flirts with my husband at work? Should everyone be required to recycle?[...]

John is soloing in this episode. In this episode, John takes on four questions: How to attract more men than I do now? How do I get to know my boyfriend better? Boyfriend is not responding while mom is in hospital. How can I win a girl's favor when I have no car, and live[...]

The first Girls Ask Guys Show with John doing a solo show. In this show John takes on the following three questions: Why do men complain about women's standards? Is this still a platonic relationship? Have you ever talked to an ex long after a breakup? To submit a question or to be a guest[...]