John and Ashley reveal the hidden psychological power plays that make navigating the dating landscape much more tricky. In this episode, we look at the dark psychology behind dating mind games while exploring the motivations in seemingly innocent interactions and investigating techniques to recognize and counteract this manipulative behavior. They reference the Hulu documentary mini-series[...]

John and Ashley wrap up their discussion on Emotions and Sexuality while giving candid pointers on how it can help you develop better relationships and connections. https://iknowcupid.com Title Song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Used with permission.

John and Ashley continue discussing emotions and sexuality while sharing some of their own experiences and dating lives.Https://iknowcupid.com Title song: "Kiss Chase" by Chloe Adams. Used with permission.

John and Ashley talk about the progression of expressing emotions and sexuality. They also cover recent dates and people they have met and how those interactions went along with insights into why these interactions worked.

John and Ashley answer the question of where you start when searching for your soul mate. This answer comes from the first lesson of their soon-to-be-released course. They go into why this is the most important step in finding true love. This is the step most often missed by so many people.https://iknowcupid.com Opening Song: Kiss[...]

Confidence is a belief in oneself.

Want to know what egotism is?

There is immense value to creating a strong foundation.

An introduction to attachment theory.

How to find your true love language.

This isn't the love language you may be thinking of.

You asked the question to know when a relationship will work or not. John and Ashley give you an in-depth answer along with some tools that you can use to figure out the answer for yourself. Know the four killers of relationships. A few of the warning signs and how they can creep into your[...]

In this episode, John and Ashley give you one of the four most common things they see that signals when a relationship is not going to work. Indifference is a warning sign that a breakup or divorce is about to happen.

A highly requested episode on how we are able to build deeply intimate relationships so quickly. In this episode, John and Ashley give you all the information you need. Step-by-step and in-depth from beginning to end. Whether you are married and looking to add the spark back in, or you are dating this episode has[...]

John and Ashley give a few details of a highly requested follow-up to their "Relationship Fundamentals" episode.

In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley give you the fundamentals that every relationship needs if you want it to be successful. This is the secret sauce that makes us so different from everyone else. You may want a pen and paper for this one.

A question from a listener asks John and Ashley what to do about her boyfriend. She says he is more interested in porn than actual sex. Listen in as John and Ashley get into the question and answer a few more related questions.

In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show, John and Ashley explain how to work with approach anxiety. Clear examples of how to create a definition of who you are, approaching, and carrying a conversation are given. Learn how to improve your romantic, social, family, and professional life with this episode.

In this episode, John and Ashley explain how you can create desirability by changing how you think about your interactions. Takeaways and actionable tips are given along with examples of how you should be thinking when talking to someone. If you want to be seen as desirable by another person, this is your first step[...]

There are two common things that we have found people do in relationship sabotage. A lot of people take one of two roles in a relationship and within that role, they end up self-sabotaging everything. Some people end up in this by accident because they are not aware that they doing it. In this episode,[...]

Is there a way to have a mind-blowing relationship? Can you deepen the capacity of love and intimacy? John and Ashley look at Intentional Intimate Relationships. To develop a healthy relationship you and your partner need to be intentional with it. You need to be deeply intimate in order for the relationship to grow. The[...]

This question is from a special person. She asks what is possibly the most in-depth question the Girls Ask Guys Show has ever received.Is Love A Transactional Affair, Or Is It Selfless?John and Ashley look at this question from several different angles and give the answer.

Settling in a relationship is something a lot of people do. The problem comes later when the relationship breaks up and people get hurt because they don't understand why. In this episode, John and Ashley share the core two parts of why people settle in a relationship.

Why do we need boundaries in our lives and relationships? In this episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show John and Ashley give a detailed explanation. They pull directly from their "Authentic Datable You" course lesson to give you an insight into what relationships look like without boundaries.Take a seat and strap in as this[...]

A question comes in about tattoos and relationships. John and Ashley are familiar with tattoos and how they can affect a relationship. In this quick tip Tuesday episode, John and Ashley have some direct advice regarding tattoos and your partners.For more tips like this visit:https://www.girlsaskguysshow.com Call Us or send a message for a chance to[...]

This question came to the Girls Ask Guys Show and its one that has John and Ashley scratching their heads. The situation is one that rom-com movies are made after, not real-life relationships or dating.They take the situation apart, look at each person, and then work to give a direction for the asker.Visit our website[...]

In today's ten-minute Tuesday episode of the Girls Ask Guys Show John and Ashley answer a question about vulnerability. The asker wants to know if showing vulnerability is seen as a weakness.John and Ashley give a quick breakdown on the topic and give a few insights into their own vulnerability and how it works in[...]

What is a good kiss? How can I kiss better? These are questions the Girls Ask Guys Show gets every now and then. John and Ashley answer this in detail with a step by step guide to show you how you elevate your kissing game to new heights. These simple steps can take you from[...]

Change is happening all around us. It can be a challenge to deal with everything taking place all around us. What happens when you want to change yourself? How do you work with changing yourself and deal with everything going on? John and Ashely discuss the topic and give insights into how they dealt with[...]

John and Ashley take questions from listeners about flaws. Are they good or bad in a relationship? Would you consider someone with no flaws, specific flaws, or someone with no flaws? The discussion gets a bit interesting as they give their own points of view and tell about their own flaws. Check the website for[...]

John and Ashley take two questions that send them down a rabbit hole of laughs. They first take a question about commitment and whether people are more or less scared of it today than over past years. Then they take a rather strange question neither of them has ever encountered. "As you become older does[...]

Two questions come in that are nearly identical. They both ask about character traits and what people want. John and Ashley cover this in detail while explaining the difference between character and personality. John and Ashley also go into detail in showing how defining what you want and how changing your character to attract the[...]

John and Ashley answer two questions that deal with characteristics. The first is about personal character and the second is about how a person looks. Both of these questions are relevant to what is happening behind the scenes at the Girls Ask Guys Show and what listeners are asking for. John and Ashley take these[...]

What side do you fall on when it comes to prenuptial agreements? Some have pretty strong arguments. John and Ashley look at these from two different points of view. Both have some strong opinions on these pre-wedding marriage contracts. If you agree or disagree let us know by dropping us a line on our website.[...]

The Netflix Love Is Blind finale happened with the weddings taking place. Based on all the research and what was in the episodes John and Ashley made some predictions in the last Love Is Blind episode. In this episode, John and Ashley go over each of the predictions between the couples and their relationships then[...]

In this episode, John and Ashley go deep into the four Love Is Blind episodes that have been released by Netflix. John and Ashley go into each episode and detail the cast and compare what they are going through with the research that has already been discovered. The research is given so that you can[...]

Netflix came out with a show based on some psychological studies that people don't have to see each other to fall in love. Unfortunately, John is all too familiar with those studies and both John and Ashley have a problem with the Netflix show 'Love Is Blind'.John and Ashley pull about 37 studies from their[...]

Talking to a person you have never met can be a nerve-wracking experience for some people. Especially if you find them attractive. Having some kind of strategy can help lessen those nerves.In this second part of a three-part micro-course series John and Ashley break things down into easy to understand parts so nearly anyone can[...]

Guys and Porn. Why do guys watch porn? John and Ashley do a deep dive into this and reveal the relationship mistakes guys are learning when they try what they see in porn with real women. The mistakes are huge with most women. Which can lead to not only really bad sex, but no "repeat[...]

John and Ashley run through a list of the most popular complaints that women have about men when it comes to sex.These mistakes can make or break a guy in the sex department when it comes to satisfying a woman. Some are pretty basic and we hear them all the time, others not so much.[...]

Today we talk with Interpersonal Relationship Coaching founder John Kenny. John walks us through five things to watch out for that are red flags that you might be in a toxic relationship.These are signs that we may notice but don't really pay attention to because of our desire for acceptance and belonging. However, they are[...]

In part one, it was the girl's side. In part two it was the guy's side. This episode goes a little deeper into the pick-up world and leagues. What is a "league" and do they exist? How all of it ties together. To submit a question or to be a guest on the show go[...]

Ashley and John continue discussing Manipulation. A question that asks if a guy should enter a relationship he believes he would be manipulated in. John and Ashley dive deep into exploring this question. To submit a question or to be a guest on the show go to the Girls Ask Guys Show website at http://www.girlsaskguysshow.com/contact[...]

The hardest hitting show John and Ashley have taken so far. This topic was so large that it had to be split into three parts to cover every angle. Find out what constitutes manipulation in a relationship and what doesn't. In this episode, we reveal just how big manipulation is and the most popular types[...]

John is soloing behind the mic one more time. In this episode, John takes on two questions: How to become marriage material? What response would you like to hear from a girl who just turned you down for a date? In this episode, John covers the most common traits most guys find attractive in girls.[...]